Sex–>God’s Way

by Kareem G.
in Entertainment, Philosophy, Relationships
on September 12, 2023

..Lovely conversation about intimacy. I’ll just comment on the early part of the conversation about “submission”.

So… women should be inspired to be submissive to a male love. I don’t believe in telling her to just be submissive. Fundamentally, it just doesn’t work that way. The male should be ‘the shit’ like that. –This, so that she can be inspired to be willing–of her own volition–to submit or surrender herself to him. That’s the way it truly works. –(See blog entitled, Higher Times, covering what women want.) A healthy/balanced-minded female–deep down–truly desires to surrender to a man she’s sincerely in to.

Lately–since the influx of the success of women in hip-hop and of certain reality shows (on VH1, MTV and Bravo)–I’ve noticed certain groups of females kinda forcing themselves to behave like typical, cliché guys. For example: being playas, cheating more than their nature intends, being tactlessly aggressive in their expression (especially–but not only, sexually)–talking to a man…like a man–to the point where it’s a psycho-sexual turn-off for us.

In the next video below, the physically desirable Megan Thee Stallion (fake boobs…but I’ll disregard that right now 🫤🙂) is saying certain things, in a certain way that was sometimes not particularly appealing to my masculine psychology. Other than that, the song was aight.

Deep down in her femaleness, Megan knew that she was saying some of the wrong things–in the wrong tones–to the male heart and brain…generally speaking. This is why she said the line about being “a p*ssy boy if you get offended!” This is her non-conscious description for guys who are a little turned off by her (at times) tone-deafness when it comes to truly feminine, sexual prowess in some of her lyrics.

Ok. Now Megan:

Very well put.

There are appealing ways for women to express sexual aggression/prowess (for example: in the form of vulgarity). But though this is the case, this is generally not what is most desired by evolved, masculine straight men. We are attracted to females–in general–for their femininity…as our female counterparts are to our masculinity.

(NOTE regarding masculinity: A healthy, balanced-minded male’s masculine strength is imbued with a capacity of sensitivity. “Sensitivity is the essence of true Strength.” ~God).

Now below, I’ve posted example videos to illustrate female sexual aggression/prowess while remaining in a feminine vibration/tone of expression–They can be lyrically and/or physically based:

A little feminine modesty is often desirable characteristic in females..at least in an undertoned capacity. There are different ways to express this. It could be in how you sit, what you say, how you dress, etc. And I think females are naturally aware of this dynamic. Some, ofcourse, are more in tune with it than others. Even many of the “wilder” variety of females have expressed these traits in certain ways. It pronounces your desirable femininity to guys through its undeniable undertones. It’s like the feminine make-up rule that goes: “The most desirable way to wear make-up is to look like you’re not wearing any.” And so, the quote, “Be a Lady in the Streets, Freak in the Sheets” is a holy proverb in my book.

Now, here are some desirable and softer sexual/sensual tones I like (More physically based):