How Women Argue. A list of her “goto” tools.

These are primary goto tools women use when arguing, particularly with male partners. Maybe men are known to do one or two of these also, but women use these tools notoriously and have collectively mastered them.

Note: Keep in mind that the following are not likely to be employed if the man happens to be in a position where the women sees it in her best interest not to exercise this type of behavior.

Now, let’s get started:

#1)“Logic who?” Throw away all concern for logic when wrong and/or upset. This is manifested by the use of diversion tactics–pulling disintegrated and irrelevant statements and questions out of thin air then injecting them into the conversation..lol..with a..lol..a straight face..lolol. Ya’ll are so crazy.

#2) Your say/My way–>Changing, rearranging or omitting words that were said to them in order to give pseudo credibility to a flawed position they plan to make, or a belief they’re defending..due to insecurity.  This is also done to validate their emotions and intentions regarding the parts of the verbal exchange that bothered them.  It can be quite difficult or impossible for many women to acknowledge the positive things that might have been said to them in the same breadth.

Example:

Person 1: “I currently have alot of choices in women.”

Person 2 (woman quoting person 1 a couple more minutes into the conversation): “..I mean, you just said you can get any woman you want, so..”

Smh..no.  Next tool.

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#3)”Pricking”– Quick, small, sharp stabs at what she knows or assumes to be his most sensitive points..like a little insignificant and/or potentially embarrassing detail she may observe in the moment. His “manhood” is historically her most popular target selection.

Example A:

Person 1(Woman): “You’re acting like a little girl!”

Example B:

Person 1(Woman): “Are you wearing British Knights?”

Lol..Bitch. Ok next.

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#4)”Black, White, Grey”–Overtly(Black & White) or covertly(Grey) undermining what he says that is correct, logical, well integrated yet most of all…unsettling for her.  This is done by giving back-handed or “so-so” credence to what he said.  Making a “die-hard” effort not to acknowledge the accuracy of his integration.

Example A:

Person 1: “Men get a raw deal nowadays when it comes to marriage laws. If things don’t work out, they often lose the house, half their wealth, and even rights to see their children.” 

Person 2 (Woman–Black & White/Overt): “Your comment sounds like you’ve been hurt.”

 

Example B:

Person 1: “Men get a raw deal nowadays when it comes to marriage laws. If things don’t work out, they often lose the house, half their wealth, and even rights to see their children.”

Person 2 (woman-grey/covert): “Your comment sounds like you’ve been hurt, but there were some currents of truth.”

??..No, that’s  A B S O L U T E L Y  true.  Next.

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#5) “Duck..duck..GOOSE!” If you’re making more than one solid point in a row, they wait for the one point where they perceive a slight inaccuracy (or an “in”..so-to-speak) then jump on it to use it to add validity to their position in an attempt to disregard the series of points that were being made leading up to that.

Example:

Person 1: “Baby, we can’t sustain all this frivolous spending (Person 2 woman is just listening). Person 1 continues->What’s wrong with you? We have bills to pay. You have enough dresses. You can’t afford 4 manicures and pedicures a month. You don’t need a thousand pairs of shoes.”  (Person 2 woman snaps back)-> “I don’t have A THOUSAND pairs of shoes! See, you always do that!..”

Lol..Next.

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#6)”The Classic”–>  Giving the “cold shoulder”.  Nuff said.

#7)”Oh, this old thing?”–> Pulling out some argument point they’ve been storing away for some time until they needed it as timely ammunition.

#8)”The Robert Gallo”–> Concocting the most damaging comment(s) during an argument that can bypass his strongest defenses and cause him the most intense dis-ease that can shut him down for good.

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**Ladies and Gentleman, if I missed something..please feel free to add it in the comment section below. 🙂

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*BTW–Although the aforementioned list of “she-tools” is used in all types of grown male/female relationships, I’m dedicating the media selection below to relationships involving sexual attraction. Enjoy.

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